Thank you for your response. I know some of my views, while mainly attempting to be logical and unbiased, has a hint of an emotional or visceral element. I say this because your response echoes my feelings on the subject both from experience and as a parent focused on raising strong, healthy, selfless, cooperative children, which I believe football is the best sport for doing so.
Now, it feels like you have to be one of the best at an early age, or be all-in to even enjoy it nowadays. Mine doesn’t seem to have the natural ability so far, neither did I, but the old system had a way of developing more over time, which has benefited me. The very best in youth were still the best, but over time some of us began to develop while others did not making our varsity team quite different than what you would call the all-stars. As a former coach, I also noticed for whatever reason those that were starters and played, but weren’t standouts really developed in their later years through that experience. I think it really speaks to the change in roster sizes at the varsity level (that 3rd string guard who eventually became a starter).